Say goodbye to your shame insecurity trauma

Helping you love and understand the way that you have been created


How do I...? Why can't I...? These are questions we have all asked. Having traversed her own journey of joy, pleasure, and freedom from shame, Nicole is able to help you achieve the same, with one-on-one, or couples sessions.


Education the heartbeat of everything Nicole does. With this in mind, Nicole has created Africa's first dedicated sex education portal for non-professionals, designed to help families speak about sex, help individuals achieve deep pleasure, deepen couples' intimacy, and more.


Facilitating virtual workshops as well as in-person workshops, which are open for all to attend, Nicole's workshops have a core focus around three primary topics. Nicole also speaks at bespoke workshops and events.

Every journey starts with the first step. You just made yours.

Our sexual-self, and how we perceive this aspect of who we are, is an integral part of how we see ourselves as a whole, and how we relate to others. 

When a sexual dysfunction or insecurity develops in either partner, ultimately it will affect both partners, potentially causing a great deal of distress.

Most people do not know where to turn when sexual problems, concerns or questions creep up. The internet is full of terrible advice, and sexual issues are not something most people feel comfortable discussing  – even with their partner.

The result is that many men and women suffer silently whilst at the same time feeling sexually inadequate, abnormal, or just plain frustrated.

Are you really sexually confident and satisfied?
Sex Satisfaction Quiz

If your answer is “yes” to one or more of these questions, you are not alone. There is a good chance that your problem is fairly common and can be treated or alleviated.

Painful Sex

Sex should never be a painful experience, although many women in particular are taught that is can be. I work with many women to create pain free and pleasurable sexual experiences.
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Erectile Issues

Erectile Dysfunction and other erectile issues can be difficult to talk about, but they are very common issues and affect all men at some stage in their life. Let's find a way forward.
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Low Libido

With the stresses of modern life, it is no wonder that partners and individuals come to me with low libido and mismatched desire. Let's work on these concerns together.
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Sex Education

Through workshops and online education I help families, communities and individuals find out more about their own bodies, healthy sexual function , and sexual behaviour.
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Sexual Shame

Growing up in a conservative country with various cultural and religious expectations, any of us battle with our sexuality and sexual identifies. Let's talk to find your true sexual joy
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Be Revolutionary In Your Love

"Take a lover who looks at you like you are magic.”
—Frida Kahlo
Professional accreditations, & partners (present and past)

"I strive to exemplify three fundamental pillars of healing and education – radical truth telling, passionate hope, and unrelenting love."
- Nicole du Toit

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An understanding conversation can change everything

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